Since I found out about the Tom Milsom thing his music has been stuck in my head constantly like my brain is playing a big joke on me
Organs was such an important album to me but I don’t think I can separate the art from the artist in this case. nope. fuck him. done.
I’m so tired and I want to stop crying and I want to fall asleep feeling safe and being next you
Bring consent out of the bedroom. I think part of the reason we have trouble drawing the line “it’s not okay to force someone into sexual activity” is that in many ways, forcing people to do things is part of our culture in general. Cut that shit out of your life. If someone doesn’t want to go to a party, try a new food, get up and dance, make small talk at the lunchtable—that’s their right. Stop the “aww c’mon” and “just this once” and the games where you playfully force someone to play along. Accept that no means no—all the time.
And I was having the first good sleep for like a week because I felt safe
I needed to capture this moment in time, like THIS EXACT MOMENT and I’m not sure why
SUNFLOWERS! (also they mean happiness and loyalty and all that uplifting jazz)
YES SUNFLOWERS I’m thinking a sunflower tattoo between my shoulder blades on my back if that makes sense?
I have always loved flowers so much but I haven’t thought about it for a long time until recently and that’s been because I’ve been talking a lot about my childhood and the things I want for my children and my future home with Simon lately (not that we’re moving in together or having kids for a while, but I like talking to him about stuff and telling him all about my life) and like wow I love flowers they were so important to me growing up I want to get that back